Me & my boyfriend share a bunk bed in a room with 8 other people, but it doesn’t stop us from having sex every day

A WOMAN has opened up on her adventurous love life, which involves a room full of eight other people.

It’s not as saucy as it might seem, since the others aren’t actually technically involved in the sex.

The shared rooms can make being intimate a bit trickyCredit: Getty
Soles of feet of a young couple sticking out from under white blankets at the foot of the bed.
The couple prefer to stay in a shared hostel room to save cash and meet new peopleCredit: Getty

Speaking to the Metro as part of its How To Do It series, Ginny*, 29, explained how she usually has sex with her boyfriend, Diego*, 34, about six times per week.

However, since the pair, who have been together for a year are digital nomads they often stay in hostels, which means they don’t get as much alone time as other couples.

“Having sex in a busy room or a bathroom isn’t so bad when you’re young and dumb, but now we’re a year into our relationship,’ Ginny said.

“Lovemaking is a lot harder when you’re in a room of eight dirty backpackers — coughing, sneezing, farting. It’s not exactly the recipe for romance.”

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The duo started out a holiday fling, Ginny explained, but soon their romance went to the next level.

It was never the plan to stay together, but things quickly became serious for the pair.

But despite the serious and monogamous nature of their relationship, Ginny and Diego still opt for a shared room when they stay in hostels.

Of course, they could get a private room so they could be intimate without the stress of anyone hearing or seeing them, but as far as Ginny is concerned it’s not worth it.

She explained that the “camaraderie” that comes with sharing a room with a bunch of strangers would be a huge loss for the pair on their travels, not to mention the additional cost of a private room.

Plus, Ginny explained that she quickly gets to know the habits of the other people in the room.

Out of the eight currently staying in the hostel at the same time, she revealed they all have their own routines.

She detailed some of the characters, including a man calling people at certain times, a girl with a bad cold, and even the bloke in the bunk bed above them, who rolls around incessantly.

It’s all in good fun for the couple though, who have got their private time together down to a T.

It’s all about being quiet, unsurprisingly. But that makes it all the more intense and sexy, Ginny said.

Positions can be tricky too – there’s not much room in a bunkbed after all.

Having sex in a hostel is all about being quiet. No big noises or deep breathing. This is really hard, but this level of control can also make it really sexy.

The whole thing takes a level of efficiency that Ginny said can be pretty sexy.

And when things do get so crowded that being intimate isn’t on the cards, the pair can take a break and have their own room in a cheap hotel nearby for one night.

Tips for a stress-free holiday with kids

PARENTS have been told the three ways in which they can make family holidays with kids so much easier.

Three experts have weighed in with their advice on what to do in order to make your getaways as stress-free as possible.

Family holidays are always exciting but having kids of a certain age can mean that things are more difficult than they need to be.

Thanks to Travel Weekly, here are three ways that those with young toddlers can have the best holiday possible.

Clarisse Chapolard, who is responsible for overseeing and caring for Club Med’s customers, says that booking off-peak flights ensures a quieter plane and airport – providing a more comfortable experience.

“Staff will generally be more available to help too,” she adds. “Flights can be the biggest headache with small children, so travel short-haul where possible.”

Clarisse also recommends making sure there are activities nearby to your accommodation to keep toddlers happy.

Having a child-friendly hotel can make the world of difference to your family holiday, especially when parents are looking for some time to themselves.

Founder and chief executive of Martinhal Resorts, Chitra Stern, said: “Accommodation needs to be child-friendly and safe, but also stylish and comfortable for parents.”

Finding somewhere with bed protectors, stair gates, steps in the bathrooms and furniture with round edges will prevent any unnecessary injuries or accidents.

Alan Cross, director of travel agent relationships for Jet2holidays, has recommended parents to look at package holidays for peace of mind, ease and assurance.

“Families with toddlers may appreciate dedicated facilities like kids’ clubs, children’s pools, creches, playgrounds, cots and highchairs,” he said.

Package deals can also include free child places, single-parent deals and discount codes, catering for more than a standard family of four.

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