A WOMAN has revealed that she “loves” watching her boyfriend sleep with men – and even helps film it.
Noctyra says she doesn’t get worried about her relationship when she hears about her ex army boyfriend getting with other people on a night out, or having sex with men in front of her.
Noctyra and tradesman Jack make thousands every month from filming spicy content.
They both enjoy watching each other work with other people, and Noctyra has a particular interest in watching Jack with other men – and she is often behind-the-scenes acting as camerawoman and director.
Speaking to YouTube’s Love Don’t Judge, she says: “When I see my man with other men I absolutely love it.”
She added: “If he is going out and he’s having a play I like to hear about it when he comes back.”
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Jack, who also works as a tradesman, said: “People judge our relationship because my partner likes to watch me with other men.”
He said: “People judge how long your relationship is going to last and they think it’s cheating all the time but it’s not.
“We both know what happens.”
“It’s like cheating but with permission,” Noctyra said.
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The couple met after Jack spotted a spicy picture of her on Instagram and slid into her DM’s.
Noctyra said: “We just hit it off and then we have been inseparable ever since.”
Speaking to fellow content maker, Jay, who filmed a video with Jack, Noctyra was asked why she likes watching her partner have sex with men.
She said: “Because I really like gay men and I think it’s really hot because he’s my man. It’s really naughty, it’s really bad and I like it.”
Noctyra also believes she gets such a thrill from it as she grew up in a strict and religious household.
Jack says he has been “experimental” sexually with men since he was a teenager.
“The whole reason why I started doing content, it wasn’t for money, it was time and freedom and fun for me,” he explained.
Noctyra, who says she wants to be an adult star even when she’s in her 80s, says she doesn’t get worried about Jack leaving her for any of the men she sleeps with as she feels secure.
She explained: “I really don’t get worried at all because I feel how strong his love is – I know he loves me.
“Yeah, we fancy other people and I think it’s hot.”
She added: “If Jack wants to work with somebody he will always say, ‘is it OK if I work with this person?’
“We always just tell each other about our boundaries.”
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Jack said the pair get a lot of judgement, particularly from strangers online.
Commenting on their socials, one individual said: “This won’t last.”
“Why doesn’t Jack just be in a relationship with a man?,” questioned another.
“I’m judging, this is bananas,” said another.
“This is bizarre,” commented one other. “It’s really weird,” said another.
But plenty have also offered their support. One wrote: “Good for them, I find what she said is hot too.”
Another commented: “Love how secure they both are and open with who they are.
“That is true happiness being with someone who loves you and wants you to be happy, not ashamed and hiding!”
“They’re not hurting anybody, not my cup of tea but if they love it, I like it,” said another.
“Whatever floats your boat I say,” agree one other.
“You have to be a strong couple to do this,” Jack said in reaction to the social media comments.
Noctyra added: “It’s made us much stronger as a couple, I feel like we’ve bonded loads over it.” “I have to bite my tongue a lot.”
They are currently looking for a third person to join their relationship but have yet to find the right match.
“We’re happy with our dynamic,” she added. “Jack is a very smart man, he’s just perfect.”
“Noctyra completely changed my life for the better,” he added.